Thinking About a Vasectomy? Here’s What You Might Regret Later

You’ve probably thought this through. Maybe you’ve had kids already. Maybe you know you don’t want them. Or maybe you just want to feel a little more in control of your future, your sex life, or your relationship. A vasectomy can seem like a practical, no-hassle solution.

But if you’re even slightly unsure — or if you’re feeling pressure from someone else to make the call — you might want to slow down for a moment.

A new tool developed by researchers can now predict the likelihood of vasectomy regret, and the results are worth thinking about. Turns out, some men are more prone to wishing they hadn’t done it — and the factors that raise the risk might surprise you.

The Red Flags for Regret

Here are some of the factors that make vasectomy regret more likely:

• You’re under 30

• You have no children, or just one

• Your relationship is unstable, uncertain, or newly established

• You feel unsure — even just a little — about whether you might want kids someday

• You’re doing this under pressure — from a partner, from finances, or from fear

These aren’t reasons not to get a vasectomy. But they are reasons to check in with yourself before making a permanent decision. The problem isn’t the procedure. It’s that life can change — and sometimes, our beliefs and desires change with it.

The Role of Therapy in Permanent Decisions

This is where we come in.

At Guys Resolve, we support men making big life decisions — including permanent ones like vasectomy. We offer pre-vasectomy counselling, either as a standalone session or as part of ongoing therapy.

Sometimes, one or two conversations with a trained therapist can help clarify your thinking, sort out what’s yours vs. what’s someone else’s influence, and give you a clearer path forward.

We can help you explore:

• Whether this choice lines up with your long-term goals

• What this decision means for your identity, your relationship, and your future

• What emotional or relational factors might be clouding your thinking

Make an Informed Choice

This is your life, and your body. You deserve to make this choice with clarity, confidence, and peace of mind.

If you want to talk it through, we’re here. You can book a free consultation and speak with one of our therapists — no pressure, no judgment.

And if you’ve already had a vasectomy and are struggling with regret? You’re not alone. We can work with men at every stage of the journey.

Book your free consultation today.

Reference:

Medscape Medical News. (2024, April 30). New Tool Predicts Vasectomy Regret Before Surgery. Retrieved from https://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/new-tool-predicts-vasectomy-regret-before-surgery-2025a1000aew

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